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		<title>By: thenonconformer</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-480</link>
		<dc:creator>thenonconformer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 19:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>IT IS NOW MORE  RARE BUT I DO ALSO NOW STILL GET BULLIED BY RELIGIOUS BULLIES, ABUSERS TOO..  not just by the past bad cops
 
The WRONGFULLY STILL Unrepentant  bully’s problem is that he or she is one of those bad persons  who only feels truly alive when voicing hostility and contempt for his “enemies.” Without that, he or she starts gasping for air. It’s his nature.. self-destructive&quot; ..  clearly these immoral  Bully, Basher of others, Abusers of others has a disappointed, deflated ego, negative self worth,  most likely related to past unresolved guilt, as a result  of  that   the bully, he or she, tries falsely to   build  their ego up by bashing, hating others, by being an antagonists against  his proclaimed enemies, which too often also  is most people , for  he or she no longer trust anyone, and Abusers this is a common very typical approach, fact in the character build up of Bullies, Bashers, but their approach is futile, the subsequent feeling of self worth dissipates too quickly, are actually replaced by guilt,  and his ego, self worth likely needs to be recharged with new hate.. and is replaced with more and larger hatred of the others.  I have seen this type of wrong behavior not just in bad managers, bad politicians, bad persons, but  in alcoholics, and most often in Albertan rednecks ,but also  in religious   fundamentals evangelicals who promote hated towards Pentecostal Christians as well, and  now as well as the crooked pastor wrongfully  fighting for control over others. Public exposure and prosecution of these bad persons here too services everyone&#039;s best interest.</description>
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<p>The WRONGFULLY STILL Unrepentant  bully’s problem is that he or she is one of those bad persons  who only feels truly alive when voicing hostility and contempt for his “enemies.” Without that, he or she starts gasping for air. It’s his nature.. self-destructive&#8221; ..  clearly these immoral  Bully, Basher of others, Abusers of others has a disappointed, deflated ego, negative self worth,  most likely related to past unresolved guilt, as a result  of  that   the bully, he or she, tries falsely to   build  their ego up by bashing, hating others, by being an antagonists against  his proclaimed enemies, which too often also  is most people , for  he or she no longer trust anyone, and Abusers this is a common very typical approach, fact in the character build up of Bullies, Bashers, but their approach is futile, the subsequent feeling of self worth dissipates too quickly, are actually replaced by guilt,  and his ego, self worth likely needs to be recharged with new hate.. and is replaced with more and larger hatred of the others.  I have seen this type of wrong behavior not just in bad managers, bad politicians, bad persons, but  in alcoholics, and most often in Albertan rednecks ,but also  in religious   fundamentals evangelicals who promote hated towards Pentecostal Christians as well, and  now as well as the crooked pastor wrongfully  fighting for control over others. Public exposure and prosecution of these bad persons here too services everyone&#8217;s best interest.</p>
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		<title>By: Neither give place to the devil. &#171; 1st Wittness</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-311</link>
		<dc:creator>Neither give place to the devil. &#171; 1st Wittness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 15:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I have learned decades and decades ago that most of the Brethren not just the too many bad pastors  are also deceitful, nasty, abuseful and really unacceptably bad.. they falsely are control freaks, who falsely love to practise divorce, even the silent treatment to those who do not  give them what they want.. do now see also  the postings on the topics in http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/   The too common abusive silent treatment Verbal abuse is always unacceptable too. Deliberate unforgiveness  Control freaks More about Control freaks. Fears  Can a person change? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I have learned decades and decades ago that most of the Brethren not just the too many bad pastors  are also deceitful, nasty, abuseful and really unacceptably bad.. they falsely are control freaks, who falsely love to practise divorce, even the silent treatment to those who do not  give them what they want.. do now see also  the postings on the topics in <a href="http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/" rel="nofollow">http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/</a>   The too common abusive silent treatment Verbal abuse is always unacceptable too. Deliberate unforgiveness  Control freaks More about Control freaks. Fears  Can a person change? [...]</p>
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		<title>By: I have learned decades and decades ago that the Brethren are deceitful.. &#171; Missing the point?</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-309</link>
		<dc:creator>I have learned decades and decades ago that the Brethren are deceitful.. &#171; Missing the point?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 15:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I have learned decades and decades ago that most of the Brethren not just the too many bad pastors  are also deceitful, nasty, abuseful and really unacceptably bad.. they falsely are control freaks, who falsely love to practise divorce, even the silent treatment to those who do not  give them what they want.. do now see also  the postings on the topics in http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/   The too common abusive silent treatment Verbal abuse is always unacceptable too. Deliberate unforgiveness  Control freaks More about Control freaks. Fears  Can a person change? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I have learned decades and decades ago that most of the Brethren not just the too many bad pastors  are also deceitful, nasty, abuseful and really unacceptably bad.. they falsely are control freaks, who falsely love to practise divorce, even the silent treatment to those who do not  give them what they want.. do now see also  the postings on the topics in <a href="http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/" rel="nofollow">http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/</a>   The too common abusive silent treatment Verbal abuse is always unacceptable too. Deliberate unforgiveness  Control freaks More about Control freaks. Fears  Can a person change? [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Favorite Christian based reading, resources &#171; Missing the point?</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-298</link>
		<dc:creator>Favorite Christian based reading, resources &#171; Missing the point?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 19:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] always unacceptable too. Deliberate unforgiveness  Control freaks More about Control freaks. Fears  Can a person change? there still can be a good life after divorce  Changing yourself first, positively my teenager [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Favorite Christian based reading, resources &#171; 1st Wittness</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-296</link>
		<dc:creator>Favorite Christian based reading, resources &#171; 1st Wittness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 19:09:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] always unacceptable too. Deliberate unforgiveness  Control freaks More about Control freaks. Fears  Can a person change? there still can be a good life after divorce  Changing yourself first, positively my teenager [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Can a non Christian Marry a Christian? &#171; Witnessed</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-224</link>
		<dc:creator>Can a non Christian Marry a Christian? &#171; Witnessed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 20:22:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.    see also  http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/     http://net-burst.net/ruth/mismatched.htm   [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.    see also  <a href="http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/" rel="nofollow">http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/</a>     http://net-burst.net/ruth/mismatched.htm   [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Can a non Christian Marry an Christian? &#171; Focus on the Family</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-222</link>
		<dc:creator>Can a non Christian Marry an Christian? &#171; Focus on the Family</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 19:54:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.    see also  http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/     http://net-burst.net/ruth/mismatched.htm   [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.    see also  <a href="http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/" rel="nofollow">http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/</a>     http://net-burst.net/ruth/mismatched.htm   [...]</p>
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		<title>By: thenonconformer</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-182</link>
		<dc:creator>thenonconformer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:49:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Reminds me at the time I was pastoring and praying for sick people in the Hospital.. I prayed for a man who had a heart stroke and I came back next week and he was not any better… so I prayed to God again this time asking why? Jesus replied to me who had told you to stop praying for him, praying once was not enough, persistent prayer is often needed.. so I prayed again for him right there.. and shortly he was discharged from the hospital to fully recover eventually at home.

men and women ought to pray and not give up..

  NEXT TO PRAYER Public exposure and prosecution of the guilty persons seems to be most effective way that works for everyone&#039;s benefit IN DEALING WITH THE BAD ACTS OF OTHERS</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reminds me at the time I was pastoring and praying for sick people in the Hospital.. I prayed for a man who had a heart stroke and I came back next week and he was not any better… so I prayed to God again this time asking why? Jesus replied to me who had told you to stop praying for him, praying once was not enough, persistent prayer is often needed.. so I prayed again for him right there.. and shortly he was discharged from the hospital to fully recover eventually at home.</p>
<p>men and women ought to pray and not give up..</p>
<p>  NEXT TO PRAYER Public exposure and prosecution of the guilty persons seems to be most effective way that works for everyone&#8217;s benefit IN DEALING WITH THE BAD ACTS OF OTHERS</p>
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		<title>By: thenonconformer</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-93</link>
		<dc:creator>thenonconformer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 23:19:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt;&gt;Numerous studies have been done, surveys taken, and statistics shown over and over that there is brokenness, dysfunction, hurt and loss when a family is without a father.  Likewise, we are broken and dysfunctional without our Heavenly Father

Understandably too many persons are discontented,  unhappy today with themselves ,and others and they basically have a God shaped vacuum that they are trying to fill in with alcohol, bad drugs, verbal abuse , power, control, sex, smoking or whatever, and none of this counterfeit fulfillment will even help to make for their own personal lasting happiness too.

Unrealistic and sadly often lazy too many persons expect a perfect life, expect a life full of happiness and no hardships, work, difficulties do now falsely think having loads of money or  a marriage is the solution to this personal goal too but next become depressed when it of course will not happen.. Jesus alone will make you truly happy, not money or your spouse even.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt;&gt;Numerous studies have been done, surveys taken, and statistics shown over and over that there is brokenness, dysfunction, hurt and loss when a family is without a father.  Likewise, we are broken and dysfunctional without our Heavenly Father</p>
<p>Understandably too many persons are discontented,  unhappy today with themselves ,and others and they basically have a God shaped vacuum that they are trying to fill in with alcohol, bad drugs, verbal abuse , power, control, sex, smoking or whatever, and none of this counterfeit fulfillment will even help to make for their own personal lasting happiness too.</p>
<p>Unrealistic and sadly often lazy too many persons expect a perfect life, expect a life full of happiness and no hardships, work, difficulties do now falsely think having loads of money or  a marriage is the solution to this personal goal too but next become depressed when it of course will not happen.. Jesus alone will make you truly happy, not money or your spouse even.</p>
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		<title>By: my teenager smokes, does not listen to me &#171; Focus on the Family</title>
		<link>http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/#comment-92</link>
		<dc:creator>my teenager smokes, does not listen to me &#171; Focus on the Family</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 11:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Page        &#8592; My Most Popular Post in The Focus on the&#160;Family Can a person&#160;change? 
http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/

see also 
Money the root of all evil 
http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/09/money-the-root-of-all-evil/

More about Control freaks. Fears, Fear seems to be the dominating force behind the mostly negative aspects of control freaks.. fear of what?

http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/12/more-about-control-freaks/. [...]


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<a href="http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/" rel="nofollow">http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/can-a-person-change/</a></p>
<p>see also<br />
Money the root of all evil<br />
<a href="http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/09/money-the-root-of-all-evil/" rel="nofollow">http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/09/money-the-root-of-all-evil/</a></p>
<p>More about Control freaks. Fears, Fear seems to be the dominating force behind the mostly negative aspects of control freaks.. fear of what?</p>
<p><a href="http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/12/more-about-control-freaks/" rel="nofollow">http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/12/more-about-control-freaks/</a>. [...]</p>
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