It is no secret that so many Marriages are messed up even in Christian homes now too due to Laziness, Unrealistic expectations, spoiled brats, and uncontrolled sexual lusts, viewing and reading porn.. it seems undeniably firstly the parents have failed in properly raising their children to deal with life, next have the schools and churches too, when even most even evangelical pastors are inadequate, not spirit filled, commit adultery and counsel divorce wrongfully too

Unfortunately most of my Christian Ministry at one time was Biblical marriage counseling , unfortunate cause it was depressing to hear about broken homes for me, cause so many people complained about their marriage..

I also studied why many marriages fail.. their were the secular answers.. such as dispute over money, control, lust and adultery..

and there were the other evident basic reasons.. personal laziness, unrealistic expectation of what marriage entails, will bring too..

do also note this plus outsiders do break up marriages..

70 percent of evangelical pastors even counsel divorce, or have committed adultery cause they clearly are still sex maniocs..

and also politicians, lawyers help to break up marriages too..

but so do jealous friends, neighbors, relatives, mothers, mother in-laws now too..

then there were the marriages made outside of the will of God.. where the persons chose his own spouse and not God’s or a Christian married an unbeliever and most of these marriages seem to fail too..

The divorce rate for professing Christian believers at 30 percent is even one divorce too many too.